My personality of being direct is not something that many of those who knows me not know about. In fact, some may find my being direct has some form of harshness or brutality in it. Interestingly, some find my being direct a gift they embrace for my being honesty and straightforwardness brought them to much [...]
Archive for October, 2010
Being Direct
Posted in Attitudes, tagged communication, Freedom, integrity, Self on October 31, 2010 | 4 Comments »
“I”
Posted in Ideas, tagged conditionings, dream, Ideas, inquiry, Self, spiritualjourney on October 27, 2010 | 1 Comment »
So we have been told that “I” am not what you think I am, and also not what I think I am. Who is in fact, the “I”, an “I? “I” began to observe in my journey lately, how truthful the statement (can’t really recall who made that statement though) is that everything that happens [...]
The Happy Dream
Posted in Excerpts from Books, tagged A Course in Miracles, dream, forgiveness, Freedom, Home, Love, relationships, selfawareness, spiritualjourney on October 23, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
Prepare you now for the undoing of what never was. If you already understood the difference between truth and illusion, the Atonement would have no meaning. The holy instant, the holy relationship, the Holy Spirit’s teaching, and all the means by which salvation is accomplished, would have no purpose. For they are all but aspects [...]
Compassion for Self
Posted in Attitudes, tagged appreciation, compassion, forgiveness, ignorance, projections, Self, selfawareness, willingness on October 22, 2010 | 2 Comments »
So often we have tasted the compassion of others, and our ‘so-called’ compassion for others. Yet, the most important self to be compassionate with, we tend to forget and again and again judge and hate. We cannot come to terms with the most important self, because of the strong belief that ‘I cannot be wrong’ [...]
Supporting or Spoiling You
Posted in Attitudes, tagged compassion, conditionings, ignorance, innertalks, integrity, reflections, relationships, Self, selfawareness, takingresponsibility on October 22, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve come across several situations where I’ve stood my ground with a firm ‘no’, and also of those where I’ve not stood my ground and said ‘yes’ when the inner world says ‘no’. Now, I began to ponder when I say a ‘yes’ to you during the times when I actually mean a ‘no’, am [...]
Recognizing the Light
Posted in Going Inwards, tagged conditionings, Freedom, Home, projections, reality, spiritualjourney, surrendering, Truth on October 15, 2010 | 2 Comments »
There was this day after a certain appointment, I walked around the shopping complex desiring not to head home to spend time with my family as I normally would. I strolled around aimlessly in the complex, as if contented just to be with myself or rather, with God. I looked around me and the people [...]
Living for Me Only
Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, tagged inquiry, integrity, reality, seekingapproval, Self, takingresponsibility on October 13, 2010 | 4 Comments »
Some time back, a friend asked me if she was living her life for herself, or for others. And having a cuppa with her yesterday, she asked me that question again and answered her own question: that it was both. She explained that since her parents gave her life, she is obliged to live her [...]
I am Special
Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, tagged appreciation, inquiry, mindfulness, relationships, Self, specialness, unworthiness on October 11, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
What is specialness but a belief of not being special? As I goggled the word ‘specialness’, something interesting caught my eye in its definition: the state or quality of being special; accompanied by an example: He was vain about his specialness until he realized he was really very common. It is very easy to be [...]