Intimacy during communication can only occur with honesty, authenticity and clarity. What I mean by honesty here is being totally naked in expressing one’s vulnerability; authenticity as in not covering up what is being expressed to make it sound ‘nicer’ or ‘beautiful’ or even ‘kinder’ to the ears of the other; and clarity as in, [...]
Archive for July, 2011
Communicating after Learning
Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, tagged authenticity, Byron Katie, compassion, conditionings, forgiveness, Freedom, Home, honesty, integrity, Love, reality, relationships, Self, spiritualjourney, thoughts, willingness on July 30, 2011 | 6 Comments »
Dark Night – La De Dum
Posted in Attitudes, Being the Master, Going Inwards, Poems, tagged acceptance, appreciation, awareness, compassion, conditionings, ego, forgiveness, Freedom, innerchild, innertalks, Love, mindfulness, Self, selfawareness, spiritualjourney, surrendering, takingresponsibility, unworthiness, willingness, wisdom on July 27, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Dark night, dark night La de dum dum How often you visit La de dum dum dum Here you come and off you go Totally uninvited La de dum dum dum What am I to do with you Except to welcome you once more La de dum dum dum dum dum Am I dark or [...]
When It Comes
Posted in Attitudes, Being the Master, Going Inwards, Ideas, tagged acceptance, appreciation, compassion, conditionings, ego, forgiveness, Ideas, innerchild, innertalks, integrity, Love, mindfulness, projections, reality, Self, surrendering, takingresponsibility, thoughts, unworthiness, willingness on July 27, 2011 | 1 Comment »
There is really nothing I can do about it. When it comes, it just comes. And all that I can do is to be with it, stay with it. Because there’s really no way out of it until some light appears. And that really isn’t my call at all, it somehow just has its own [...]
Oppressed Expression
Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Poems, tagged communication, conditionings, expressing, Fear, forgiveness, Freedom, honesty, Ideas, innertalks, integrity, Love, Self, selfawareness, surrendering, unworthiness, willingness on July 24, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Expression not expressed becomes Suppression. Suppression further suppressed becomes Repression. Repression not addressed becomes Depression. Depression with added ajbetness becomes Oppression. Oppression not forgiven becomes Death – as in, the living dead. Are you one of them?
Love & Fear
Posted in Attitudes, Ideas, tagged ego, Fear, ignorance, Love, Self, Truth, wisdom on July 20, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
There are only two feelings Love and fear There are only two languages Love and fear There are only two activities Love and fear Two motives Two procedures Two frameworks Two results Love or fear Love or fear ~ Rumi ~
Leaving
Posted in Going Inwards, Ideas, tagged appreciation, awareness, conditionings, Fear, Ideas, innerchild, innertalks, inquiry, Love, mindfulness, reflections, relationships, Self, takingresponsibility, thoughts, Truth, unworthiness, willingness on July 20, 2011 | 2 Comments »
Pain in separation is really just something misunderstood. The ancient thoughts carried forward up till today of ‘I am in pain’ either because of I am leaving him/her, he/she is leaving me, or we are leaving each other is always targeted at a person out there or myself. As I looked deeper into the abyss [...]
