Perception makes experience.
It has been said, “A miracle is a shift of perception”; and many ask, “what then is reality?”
Reality is not what has happened, but your response or your reaction to what is happening or has happened and that makes it your experience.
For example, when you perceive ignorance in another, what is your response or reaction to another? Likewise, when you perceive innocence in another, what is then your response or reaction to another? Therein lies your experience, your reality.
Perception is for your own sake, thereby your experience, your reality and has never, ever been about the outer or for another.