There is no what if, just what is.
have you ever wondered of the possibilities of what could be now?
the different possibilities of now could only come to be from the different possible choices that could have been made in the past; and we all know, past decisions cannot be reversed.
perhaps, you have also wondered about the possibilities of what can be in the future?
the different possibilities of the future can only come from a decision that can be made now, in the present; yet we don’t really know, if the decision made today is likely to be the preferred possibility of what we think we are choosing. In other words, we can’t choose a future imagination.
but, we can choose now, which is what is, here and present.
and the what if, will have been taken care of by what is.