Mannerism of Teachings & What Draws

When people judge or conclude on the mannerisms of teachings and the people who are drawn to it, it just becomes very obvious that they are still putting something into the box although they claim to be getting out of it. Surely, at this moment, it also looks like I am also putting them in the box by… Continue reading Mannerism of Teachings & What Draws

Teacher’s Day

So, yesterday was an official ‘Teacher’s Day’ celebrated by the world. I remember when I was a young kid, I would bring an apple to each of my teachers on such a day and wish them ‘Happy Teacher’s Day’. Why an apple? I heard or read from somewhere the best gift to a teacher was… Continue reading Teacher’s Day

Only a Child

Be gentle with me I am only a child. When you scream at me Screech at me Or even defend in your righteousness By being stern with me I will only retreat into my cave Or throw my tantrums Never seeing your point of view Only wishing you hear me out Perhaps even wishing I… Continue reading Only a Child

Haunting Eclipse

You are like that shadow haunting me day and night. An object capable of bringing me to the heights of a happy dream or the pits of a nightmare. Just because of your appearance with your whims and fancy denying my whims and fancy suppressing what is to be arghhh…. the struggle. Yet you are… Continue reading Haunting Eclipse

Stop a Moment, for Clarity

We can’t stop others from being defensive by telling people not to be defensive. But, we can choose not to be defensive even in the presence of people who are seemingly defensive.   When we are sure of what we are defensive about, that is righteousness. But, when we begin to question our defensiveness and… Continue reading Stop a Moment, for Clarity

Simple Loving

Loving is really that simple. Just loving, effortlessly. It is only when beliefs and concepts start creeping in, that it makes the experience of loving a little harder hence propelling people to behave pretty strangely towards each other.  As if to stay away, it is possible to deny what is there; as if to stay… Continue reading Simple Loving

Inquiring into Thoughts

Some may argue that we are being pulled to the past or future by thoughts and that, thoughts are impersonal. It is true. But can they surface in your consciousness if they are not part of your being? And yes, all of us, if not most of us, seem to be carrying the same stuffs. What I meant by saying they… Continue reading Inquiring into Thoughts

Emotional & Sexual Betrayal

When love is mutual and you and your partner are surrendered to each other emotionally, sex is uplifting and sacred. But when communication in your relationship becomes careless and shoddy, when time is not taken for one-to-one intimacy, your relationship becomes a shell in which you both hide. Energy and commitment disappear from your union,… Continue reading Emotional & Sexual Betrayal

Conditional Goals

I had the privilege to be given a stage two weeks ago to stand in for a friend to conduct a sharing on thoughts. They were a bunch of university students. Noticing that the crowd was able to grasp what I was sharing on how reality actually works for each of us; similarly and differentiatedly;… Continue reading Conditional Goals