Posted in Going Inwards on Apr 24th, 2010
It is very easy to get ourselves attached to something, or someone. And this is always because we perceive that something, or someone does something wonderful to or for our being when we feel overwhelmed. And so you see, it is really not that something or someone that we are seemingly attached to; but more […]
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Posted in Going Inwards on Apr 23rd, 2010
A beloved came over for dinner tonight. After dinner, we headed off for gelatos and in the midst of our indulgence in the gelatos, she abruptly told me that she had an argument with her partner. As I listened to her story, I was careful for the mind not to interpret what I was listening […]
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Posted in Going Inwards on Apr 22nd, 2010
Who I think I am, therefore I am; but who I truly am, is not who I think I am. – so, who am I? How do you tell someone that whatever they go through in life, whatever stories they tell, are just simply, a story? How do you tell someone that what I go […]
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I begin to realise how very often we take each other’s presence for granted. Today, as I was getting ready to board the aircraft to HK all on my own for the very first time, a question popped in my head ‘What if we never meet again?’ Since there was still time, I sat down […]
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Posted in Ideas on Apr 22nd, 2010
The closest someone could ever experience Unconditional Love, in my perception, is Mother’s Love. They say that Mother’s Love is Unconditional. I’d say that it is conditional – for it is because you are my child, that I love you – and that is conditional. This, I realised 1.5 years ago from the wise sharing […]
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There was a day quite some time back which I had experienced a mixture of shame, sadness, anger, hurt, love, appreciation, support and encouragement. I purposefully worded out the negative emotions first because I understand that it is these emotions which are usually more overwhelming than the others in anyone’s world, including mine. But when […]
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Posted in Excerpts from Books on Apr 22nd, 2010
If you say you love your husband, what does that have to do with him? You’re just telling him who you are. You tell the story of how he’s handsome and fascinating and sexy, and you love your story about him. You’re projecting that he’s your story. And then when he doesn’t give you what […]
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