Today I bumped into a dear one during breakfast, whilst waiting for another dear one to arrive. Unfortunately, the dear one whom I had an appointment with did not turn up because the dear one whom I bumped into turned up. During breakfast, he asked me, “so how are you? Long time no see.” It [...]
Archive for May, 2010
Comparison
Posted in Ideas, tagged acceptance, appreciation, Ideas, reality, Self, spiritualjourney, thoughts, unworthiness on May 24, 2010 | 2 Comments »
Can we ever, ever choose the pace of our growth? I remember comparing myself with those around me some time ago, never fully appreciating the space that I’ve arrived at. When I perceive that I am not any better or wiser than another, then I begin to beat myself up, ‘how could I not see [...]
Peak of Ecstasy, yet Nothing to do with You.
Posted in Going Inwards, tagged Freedom, Ideas, Love, Self, thoughts, Truth on May 23, 2010 | 2 Comments »
Am I really loving you? Or the experience that I am having with myself but with you in it? If it was another that I was experiencing this with, would it be then that I am loving another and not you? Would the result of my experience with you or another be of any different, [...]
Lovingly in Lovingness
Posted in Going Inwards, Ideas, tagged Ideas, Love, oneness, Self, thoughts on May 21, 2010 | 1 Comment »
If I am loving myself, not having to rely on another to give me love, I am totally at peace with myself. And while I am loving me, I am also loving him, when he loves himself in loving the things he is doing; even if it means his attention is not on me, but [...]
In Love with Symbols? You must be Joking!
Posted in Ideas, tagged acceptance, appreciation, ignorance, Love, projections, reflections, Self, takingresponsibility on May 20, 2010 | 3 Comments »
If we have truly tasted even a hint of self love, it is unlikely that we would allow ourselves to be reliant on love from another. I am not saying in the context where we stop others from loving us, or stop loving others; because that is in fact quite impossible and beyond our control. [...]
Self Sabotage
Posted in Attitudes, tagged appreciation, Ideas, inquiry, mindfulness, reflections, unworthiness on May 17, 2010 | 1 Comment »
Most times, we want some things, or yearn for certain experiences but run around in circles not getting to them. We unconsciously prevent ourselves from fully experiencing what could possibly turn out to be one of the best encounters in our lives and revolve later that regret into self-remorse. I remember during my early college [...]
The Key to the Ignition
Posted in Ideas, tagged communication, Ideas, willingness on May 16, 2010 | 4 Comments »
At some point in Life, we realize that we can never influence what others think no matter how much we try unless and until they buy into our idea – that is, what we were sharing at that moment in time. When they buy into our idea however, it is clearly their own doing and [...]
