Documenting Eruditions
Posted in Poems on Oct 5th, 2010
As the boy and the girl approached to the entrance to her home, she waited with anticipation. * He asked, “do you want me to give you a kiss?” * Stunt by such a question, she looked down and blurted, “the moment is gone” * She, still waiting for the opportune; he said, “ok, good […]
Posted in Going Inwards on Sep 27th, 2010
It is much easier to believe that you don’t love me or that you will leave me, than to address to why I am still holding on to you when I don’t love you. And to say I don’t love you is also not true, because there is a part of it that feels like […]
Posted in Quotes on Sep 14th, 2010
It’s great to love, but another person’s love cannot fill the hole in your heart. Filling up your heart is your responsibility. You need to love and affirm yourself day by day, moment by moment. Without your love for yourself, no amount of love from your partner is enough. – Paul Ferrini
If your joy is derived from what society thinks of you, you’re always going to be disappointed. – Madonna This explains why, being self-sufficient is so important. When we are constantly relying on some outer reality to fulfil us, we are then continuously depending our happiness, or rather our state of being to externality of which […]
Posted in Excerpts from Books on Aug 4th, 2010
In an example where you desired to find someone to love you, your desire undoubtedly reflects that you do not feel loved now and believe that no one cares much about you. Discover the heart-closing thoughts by which you create this sense of not being loved or cared for, such as “No one will ever […]
Posted in Ideas on Jul 27th, 2010
Love – is what we all live for, and it radiates from our most inner core. I can choose to look at a situation or a person as a punishment, or an opportunity to love what I would deem difficult; depending on the experience I want. If I want to retain my old ways of […]
Posted in Going Inwards on Jul 19th, 2010
Along the way, in the midst of aloneness and loneliness (and they are different, mind you), we attract like-minded friends. Due to common interests, sparks of interesting conversations set off, initiating an inevitable blossoming association, where when unmindful, can lead to a clinging-on relationship which turns a sincere, free connection to one of seeking one […]
Posted in Excerpts from Books on Jul 16th, 2010
Begin to see how much you try to change others to fit your image of how you think they should be. Be aware of how others try to change you. Feel the push and the pull. That is the world of the ego. Ego is the most insecure thing in the universe. That is why […]
Posted in Going Inwards on Jul 15th, 2010
Time and time again, we are constantly being lured into believing that there is someone out there who loves and approves us, wholly accepting us we are. And because of that addiction, we can never excuse ourselves from being affected by the way others react to us, whether they smile at us, wink at us, […]
Posted in Attitudes on Jul 13th, 2010
Have you ever wondered why most of us could never believe another when he or she lovingly tells us “I love you”? It is either we don’t believe that we are that lovable, or in a very deep seated way, we know that he or she is not loving our true self, but a façade […]