Most of the time, people will ask people with an only child, “when are you having another one” or “are you planning to have another one”. Rarely, people will tell people, “it is fine to just have one” or “the kid is fine on his/her own”; unless they themselves have only one kid, that is,… Continue reading “Aloneness” in Siblinghood
There is in truth, only one problem; that when recognized, is already solved. There are many forms of problems, we say; but they are really just the same problem. And when we can recognize that problem, it is solved. ‘you must be kidding!’ you tell me; ‘of course I am not!’ I tell you – and… Continue reading Problems? Only One.
It is very easy to get ourselves attached to something, or someone. And this is always because we perceive that something, or someone does something wonderful to or for our being when we feel overwhelmed. And so you see, it is really not that something or someone that we are seemingly attached to; but more… Continue reading Attachment, Detachment
Who I think I am, therefore I am; but who I truly am, is not who I think I am. – so, who am I? How do you tell someone that whatever they go through in life, whatever stories they tell, are just simply, a story? How do you tell someone that what I go… Continue reading Stories, am I?
She’s been told a few stories. And then she creates evidence to support the stories, not conscious that this is what she has chosen to experience. And then she realise, she’s in a dilemma, a tough position. No one can get her out of it, except herself. As what her teacher continously tell her, we… Continue reading She’s delusional
It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell. ~ Buddha ~ thus, the beginning journey back to the Self…
Since I’ve been on my own journey, I’ve come across many few who also claim to be on their journey. Why I say ‘claim’ is because I can never know if they are as serious as I am in my journey, or if they, in fact, even know what the term ‘spiritul journey’ means. Either… Continue reading The Spiritual Journey