Are you Aware? If you are made aware of what you are doing; would you still do what you do, or defend what you are doing? If you are not aware of what you are doing; then how could you be doing otherwise, but remain doing what you are already doing now? If you are […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Ideas on Mar 14th, 2012
Relationships fail and suffer in silence not because anybody is at fault, or that no one is good enough. It takes a little bit more than love, common interest and passion to sustain or nurture a relationship and I do mean all kinds of relationships which includes spousal, parental, friends, colleagues and etc. The one […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Ideas on Mar 14th, 2012
Loss or wastage is really just a perception, and hence propels an expression of action that actually causes actual wastage. The views of what is perceived as loss or wastage determines the next course of action and hence experience of it. Yet, it is also the experience that has been gained internally perceiving wastage for […]
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Posted in Attitudes on Feb 12th, 2012
If you are ever going to love Love me now while I can know The sweet and tender feelings Which from true affection flow Love me now while I am living Do not wait until I am gone And then have it chiselled in marble Sweet words on ice-cold stone If you have tender thoughts […]
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Reality and fact are really quite subjective to the beholder. I dressed really simple to the mall yesterday and met a beloved friend there for a while. She shared with me this morning that eventhough I was dressed pretty shabby the day before, she noticed that people still looked at me because I am pretty […]
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It is interesting that after many years of arriving late at a loved one’s place for the festive season, being married; I was early at the loved one’s place this year, being single – and yet what impacted me was the loved one’s constant comments on how badly I had brought up the little one. […]
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In simplicity, there is complexity; yet when complexity is seen, simplicity is restored. ~ GG ~
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Ideas on Dec 6th, 2011
This whole darn world is driven by needs. When one is fulfilled, another comes to play… as if one can never be contented just being in the moment – each moment driven by one need and another and another… even when one is fulfilled and then consumed by a sense of satisfaction or a victorious […]
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We are really, just like copycats. What we learn, we pass on making others our duplicates. Much like how we are duplicates to our forefathers either passing on a holistic ritual or a habitual routine either passing down ignorance or wisdom depending on what we are at that moment. In either that we choose in […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Ideas on Nov 25th, 2011
*published in The New York Times, July 31, 2009* LET’S say you have what you believe to be a healthy marriage. You’re still friends and lovers after spending more than half of your lives together. The dreams you set out to achieve in your 20s — gazing into each other’s eyes in candlelit city bistros […]
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