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Category Archive for 'Attitudes'

What drives one to continuously try to change what is outside, is hope. And what stops one from trying to change what is outside, is the realisation of hopelessness. Paradoxically, in that hopelessness is hope found, save that this time, it is hope for the inner world. And in the realisation of abundance in the […]

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Neverending Needs

This whole darn world is driven by needs. When one is fulfilled, another comes to play… as if one can never be contented just being in the moment – each moment driven by one need and another and another… even when one is fulfilled and then consumed by a sense of satisfaction or a victorious […]

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Duplicates

We are really, just like copycats. What we learn, we pass on making others our duplicates. Much like how we are duplicates to our forefathers either passing on a holistic ritual or a habitual routine either passing down ignorance or wisdom depending on what we are at that moment. In either that we choose in […]

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*published in The New York Times, July 31, 2009* LET’S say you have what you believe to be a healthy marriage. You’re still friends and lovers after spending more than half of your lives together. The dreams you set out to achieve in your 20s — gazing into each other’s eyes in candlelit city bistros […]

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Influencing & teaching another

I can never influence another. Not consciously, anyway. For by my conscious influencing, is to convince another my way is best and that itself is a form of attack which will inevitably lead to a defence from the other party which is also reflecting my own defence of my own ideas of what is true […]

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[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZ-8jQ4glj4] *dedicated to my teachers, my loved ones, my friends and all who had touched my life, in one way or another…*

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One

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ftjEcrrf7r0] performed by U2 (Anton Corbjin Version) Is it getting better? Or do you feel the same? Will it make it easier on you now? You got someone to blame You say One love One life When it’s one need In the night One love We get to share it Leaves you baby if you […]

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Communication as Communion

Often, there are articles written about the attack and defence patterns in communication and also the importance of openness in our communication with others; but seldom, about the purpose of communication. We are born with a voice, a voice uniquely our own to express verbally what is in the mind or heart to oneself, another […]

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Self Love

You tell me Love is what I am And all I need to do Is to undo the blocks to Love’s awareness. If that is the case Why do I need to learn How to love myself Or even attempt on How to love myself? Is it not true That if Love is what I […]

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I couldn’t sleep last night. It took some deliberation and conscious intent in order to put myself to sleep for at least a good three hours before waking up this morning. There is also an awareness that there is a loss of appetite today and after work, all I did after dropping off some friends […]

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