Being mindful or aware, is not enough… People ask me how is it that even when they are mindful or aware, the old patterns keep recurring as if now wondering does mindfulness really work, or perhaps a more wise question is ~ is it enough? The additional ingredient to add to the recipe is inquisitiveness. […]
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Posted in Being the Master, Unreasonable on Jan 1st, 2012
If Now is what creates Tomorrow Blessed Now… to all… <3
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Posted in Attitudes, Being the Master on Dec 30th, 2011
Some say, the culprit is Wanting. In truth, there is nothing wrong with Wanting. And, Wanting has to come with some degree seriously, yet, not too seriously… And there you have it…
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I grew And then it took over And it took over eversince Because I grew The more I grew The more it grew Taking over, rapidly though quietly So that no one will know So that no spotlight can be earned I grew And then it took over And each shout out of frustration No […]
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For so long I have waited Not knowing What was going on Yet also knowing Something was ongoing. And so I endured Not because I am a hero But because there was nothing else to do Except to be patient for the moment To be realised Or at least, to be reflected back That it […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Ideas on Nov 25th, 2011
*published in The New York Times, July 31, 2009* LET’S say you have what you believe to be a healthy marriage. You’re still friends and lovers after spending more than half of your lives together. The dreams you set out to achieve in your 20s — gazing into each other’s eyes in candlelit city bistros […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Ideas on Nov 21st, 2011
I can never influence another. Not consciously, anyway. For by my conscious influencing, is to convince another my way is best and that itself is a form of attack which will inevitably lead to a defence from the other party which is also reflecting my own defence of my own ideas of what is true […]
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[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ftjEcrrf7r0] performed by U2 (Anton Corbjin Version) Is it getting better? Or do you feel the same? Will it make it easier on you now? You got someone to blame You say One love One life When it’s one need In the night One love We get to share it Leaves you baby if you […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards on Nov 10th, 2011
Often, there are articles written about the attack and defence patterns in communication and also the importance of openness in our communication with others; but seldom, about the purpose of communication. We are born with a voice, a voice uniquely our own to express verbally what is in the mind or heart to oneself, another […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Ideas, Poems on Nov 9th, 2011
You tell me Love is what I am And all I need to do Is to undo the blocks to Love’s awareness. If that is the case Why do I need to learn How to love myself Or even attempt on How to love myself? Is it not true That if Love is what I […]
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