Perception makes experience. It has been said, “A miracle is a shift of perception”; and many ask, “what then is reality?” Reality is not what has happened, but your response or your reaction to what is happening or has happened and that makes it your experience. For example, when you perceive ignorance in another, what […]
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Being mindful or aware, is not enough… People ask me how is it that even when they are mindful or aware, the old patterns keep recurring as if now wondering does mindfulness really work, or perhaps a more wise question is ~ is it enough? The additional ingredient to add to the recipe is inquisitiveness. […]
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*from the voice & heart of one ~ dedicated to Princess MA* When I MYOB, does it mean I do not even voice out my concern? Apparently, no… And yet, what is the point when I voice out my concern especially to one that I hold dear to my heart caring for the physical need […]
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I grew And then it took over And it took over eversince Because I grew The more I grew The more it grew Taking over, rapidly though quietly So that no one will know So that no spotlight can be earned I grew And then it took over And each shout out of frustration No […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Ideas on Dec 6th, 2011
This whole darn world is driven by needs. When one is fulfilled, another comes to play… as if one can never be contented just being in the moment – each moment driven by one need and another and another… even when one is fulfilled and then consumed by a sense of satisfaction or a victorious […]
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We are really, just like copycats. What we learn, we pass on making others our duplicates. Much like how we are duplicates to our forefathers either passing on a holistic ritual or a habitual routine either passing down ignorance or wisdom depending on what we are at that moment. In either that we choose in […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards, Ideas on Nov 25th, 2011
*published in The New York Times, July 31, 2009* LET’S say you have what you believe to be a healthy marriage. You’re still friends and lovers after spending more than half of your lives together. The dreams you set out to achieve in your 20s — gazing into each other’s eyes in candlelit city bistros […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Ideas on Nov 21st, 2011
I can never influence another. Not consciously, anyway. For by my conscious influencing, is to convince another my way is best and that itself is a form of attack which will inevitably lead to a defence from the other party which is also reflecting my own defence of my own ideas of what is true […]
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[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ftjEcrrf7r0] performed by U2 (Anton Corbjin Version) Is it getting better? Or do you feel the same? Will it make it easier on you now? You got someone to blame You say One love One life When it’s one need In the night One love We get to share it Leaves you baby if you […]
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Posted in Attitudes, Going Inwards on Nov 10th, 2011
Often, there are articles written about the attack and defence patterns in communication and also the importance of openness in our communication with others; but seldom, about the purpose of communication. We are born with a voice, a voice uniquely our own to express verbally what is in the mind or heart to oneself, another […]
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